September 23, 2024
This is a boundary
No, I won't explain it
It exists because of trauma
Severe pain
inflicted
time and time again
This is a want
No, I won't explain it
It exists because of me
I've listened
and learned
time and time again
This is a need
No, I won't explain it
It exists because of life
Years lived
Feelings hurt
time and time again
Sometimes, they may shift
Moving as I reassess them
They're mine to have
You are not involved in making them
So you do not need to understand
You need to respect them
Because if you can't respect
my boundaries
my wants
my needs
Then I can't be around you
# Poetry # MyBeautifulSky # SettingBoundaries # SelfCare
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September 16, 2024
I am hurting
Even if you
can't understand why
Just let me be sad
That's all
I need from you
To let me feel
How I'm going to feel
Don't tell me
about how other people
have it worse than me
Don't lecture me
about being proper
or using my manners
I have these feelings
Let me feel them
Let me cry
# Poetry # MyBeautifulSky # SelfCare # SettingBoundaries
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August 5, 2024
I have boundaries
They are designed
To keep me safe
I've learned them
Through trial and error
From times I've been hurt
And had to heal
To stay safe
If you cross one
Without knowing
I will forgive you
Even if
I need to take space
To stay safe
If you ignore them
Criticize me for them
or shame me for them
Then I will need a new one
I will need to stay away
from you
To keep me safe
# Poetry # MyBeautifulSky # SettingBoundaries # SelfCare # NoToxicity
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July 29, 2024
My thoughts and feelings
are valid and important
I choose to express them
to you
But you didn't ask
about me or how I felt
You discarded my words
They meant nothing to you
So I'm finished
I won't let you back in
to my mind or my heart
If you won't listen to me
Then I won't talk to you
# Poetry # MyBeautifulSky # NoToxicity # Listening # SettingBoundaries # SelfCare
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July 22, 2024
I know
what you did
I know
why you did it
I've heard
your side
I've listened
to what you felt
And I understand
That doesn't mean
it didn't hurt
I'm okay with it
it was right
It will take time
to accept
to heal
to forgive
Now it's your turn
to listen
to know
to understand
This is what's best
for me
# Poetry # MyBeautifulSky # NoToxicity # Healing # SettingBoundaries
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